Live Simply
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I have known about this mantra for so long, and I’ve also believed in its power. I’ve tried to live by it too. Sadly, it seems that I have all but forgotten it in the past few weeks.
I’ve spent so much money on material things lately, gifts to myself. My mom asked yesterday, isn’t this supposed to be the season for buying for others? Yeah, she is so right.
Yesterday at the restaurant, two nuns were having lunch two tables down. Alfred asked, aren’t religious people supposed to live simply? Don’t judge, I said. They’re entitled to eat well too, and who knows, perhaps someone gave them gift checks or maybe it was a treat. And who would refuse a treat?
Don’t get me wrong. I won’t go all out and renounce material comforts just to share what I have with the less fortunate, or to live in complete mendicancy just so I can help feed and clothe others. But I sure need to humble myself and stay away from spending away all my hard earned money.
Besides, I’ve already got a lot of presents this Christmas. I got myself new shoes, work clothes, a guitar (for GH remember?), several second hand books lined up on the table at home, and now a new touch-screen/camera phone. I don’t need to buy myself new things. I should instead focus on helping a few more causes, and maybe lessen the burden a bit on my parents.
You see, I still live with mom and dad, my brother and I both do. And our significant others are always here as well. My bro’s been consistent with helping out with the expenses at home, while I, on the otherhand, have been remiss. That is embarrassing, even more so because my parents rarely call me out for it.
And it just isn’t right that I spend so much on other things, but don’t carry my fair share of the burden at home. My parents are more than capable to still support us but that’s beside the point. At their age they should be spending more time off and weekends taking mini-vacations.
This whole living simply shit? Like most everything else, this should start at home. When you’ve learned it’s value, it becomes a way of life and living simply while enabling others to also live.
icq
December 20, 2009 @ 10:31 am
How much money can you save by saving energy at home?
joanne g gonzales
December 20, 2009 @ 11:21 am
hello, i am living with my parents too.. and i already have a son, and he’s with me too.. hehehe i know it’s a burden to them, so i am working so hard to help in paying the bills 🙂
tracy
December 20, 2009 @ 1:26 pm
Pareho lang naman tayo sis. Nakatira pa din kami sa parents ko yun nga lang share kami sa lahat ng bayarin. 🙂
Reflecting on our ways of life, We tried our best to live simply and focus on important things like family relationships. At the end of the day, “Material comforts” are just materials which we get rid off once boredom kicks in.
verabear
December 20, 2009 @ 2:16 pm
minsan lang talaga pag masyado akong nagiging magastos, napapaisip ako’t naguguilty.
levy
December 21, 2009 @ 5:19 pm
hay naku ganyan din ako, pag madaming gastos especially sa Mall pag weekend bigla ko maiisip “sana di na lang kami namasyal”. then magagalit si hubby sinisira ko daw yung moments 🙂 siguro okay lang gumastos paminsan minsan pero pag lagi masama na yun.
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