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The Cost of College Education

How many of us have MSN.com as our home page? It’s usually the default home page on IE, so unless you actually changed your homepage then you probably see the page everyday too. But most of us won’t venture deeper than that front page. At most, we’ll click on to the Hotmail link to check mail, and then move on from there.

But when you’re at work, like I was a few days ago, you won’t really go browsing to other websites. So I clicked on a featured story on MSN, the banner read: “Finish college with zero debt” In the Philippines, I don’t think a lot of institutions offer student loans. I know that we have that in UP, but I’m not sure of the details. It is true though that many parents fall into debt to send their kids to college, along with their hopes and dreams that someday their kids would help pay them back, and eventually help them send younger kids to school.

In general though, I am still with the opinion that we are better off, and even fortunate that a college degree is a lot more affordable here in the country than in many places around the world. Each university/college also has its own scholarship program. Many other companies and institutions provide college scholarships too.

I think that this is something that I may have taken for granted.

My college education was never a problem for my parents because they had taken out a college plan and had completed paying for it years before I took the entrance exams. So money for tuition: check.

Next came the question of where I was going to study. I got accepted to all three schools I had tested for. And because the cost of their tuition fees were not a problem (again, not because we were rich, but because my parents were wise enough to take out a plan), I was at liberty to choose which one I wanted to finally enroll in. Though none of my friends were going there, I decided to enroll in the country’s premiere State University’s Diliman campus. There’s a lot of pride of getting into a quota course too, haha. 🙂 So university: check.

Like I said, I think I took for granted that I had it easy. I didn’t explore the many other courses I could have learned at the UP. I used to think that I balanced my social life with my school life while in college, but on hindsight, I simply didn’t give my education the top priority it deserved. I didn’t graduate with honors, and I did have to drop out of a subject or two. Calculus and Chem16 gave me such joy that I had to take both twice!

A lot of people are in awe of students who finish with the highest honors, not me. I’ve always felt like I could do that too, and in fact, I could have had those. But I didn’t work for it. At the time, I just didn’t care. I say this though without any bitterness. And it’s not to say that I was a bad student, or that I didn’t value the gifts that were given to me. I guess my point is that, now that I know better, and if I had the chance to do it all over again, I’d probably change some things. 🙂 I’d still be as socially active (I’m not talking about going out with friends either, I was involved in other things while I was still in school), but I would also work hard to keep my grades up.

Why? Because others don’t have it as easy as I’ve had it. And they would kill for the same opportunities I got in life. I hope to impart this to my future kids, but hopefully not put undue pressure on them.

Theme Hunting

At work yesterday, I actually made up a list of topics to blog about. But we were busy planning my Phase One SBD meals yesterday afternoon, and then the hostage footages demanded my attention in the evening.  In short, I didn’t get to use my list. Well, I haven’t yet.

So today, I wanted to get started on that list.

Food got in the way again though. Haha. I started on Phase One again, this time, the boyfriend is supplying me with the food. He cooks them for me. When I arrived home before 3pm, there was tilapia on the table. We had that for lunch, him with rice, and me with greens. The adobo-like sauce and garlic served the perfect dressing for my lettuce! I didn’t take a photo because the boyfriend was too hungry to wait up. 🙂

So then I thought I should continue to setup another blog (as if I needed one!). This time, it will be about my efforts (or lack thereof) to lose weight, and gain health. I’ve got soooo many health issues lately that may or may not be related to my obesity. Okay, they’re not new really. I’ve had them for quite awhile and they just decided to resurface all in the same month! Ugh. That was, I guess, a wake up call. To finish what I started in July. Eat healthy, and move around! 🙂 A blog to document that would be nice.

But I didn’t get the chance to work on my PC for a few hours yet. The boyfriend installed Starcraft II yesterday, and started to play this afternoon. That took awhile. 🙂 I played SC the first time it came out many many years ago. I doubt I’ll have time to try this new one out. We’ll see.

When I finally got the PC all to myself, I just couldn’t get myself to write about anything. Not any theme. Thoughts of yesterday’s hostage crisis, and its aftermath are still pretty much prevalent, and as I mentioned last night, I have no intentions of adding to what’s already being said. Then there’s the happy news of Ms. Philippines Venus Raj landing 4th runner up to the Miss Universe. I saw her Q&A portion while having lunch at the pantry, I knew then that she was doomed. Haha! But she still makes us proud. After all, she came that close to the title, and she has such positive energy in her.

Then while browsing through blogs, I saw one sporting a premium WordPress theme from Elegant Themes.

All of a sudden, I felt like getting a membership to the exclusive service is the answer to my redesign dilemma. For $39 I could get a new skin for this blog, and one for The Newbie Photographer. There would also be a suitable theme for the new blog I’ll launch soon (once I pick out a domain name). The membership is good for one year and you get to use any and all of the themes already released and will be released during your membership. You can use them on an unlimited number of blogs too, as long as they are yours and you’re not developing them for others. You can still take control of how your blog looks by tweaking the templates. If you don’t want the linky to Elegant Themes prominently displayed on your site, you can take it off too.

Do any of you use Elegant Themes? I’d really love to hear about your experience with them, specifically about customer support. Any info you could share would be greatly appreciated. Of course, if by reading this you decide to sign up with Elegant Themes as well, just click on the banner and sign up! Doing so will give me an affiliate commission that will go towards the membership. hehe 🙂

But seriously, what do you know of this theme club? 🙂

At the end of the day..

Thank you Lord!

…for tonight I will go to bed, and can look forward to getting up in the morning

…for my family surrounds me tonight. And I have more tomorrows to look forward to with them.

…for the valuable lessons that, I hope, many will learn from the tragic events of this day.

…that today, all I can really complain about, is this darn cold, and not any serious ailment.

Lord, I pray!

…that there will be less like him, who in desperation will take the lives of others.

…that tomorrow will be a brighter day for the PNP. I know they need more funds, but I’m sure they could have done better even with what they already had. I pray that better minds and more resources be chanelled towards strengthening the force we rely on to protect us.

…that everyone stays safe, wherever they are, and in whatever circumstances they be in. Safe in Your hands, and in Your heart.

There are so many things to be said about the hostage situation that happened today, if you’ve been following my Tweets, you know that I have not been quiet. But I leave the talking to others, I leave the ranting to them. As for me, I will thank the Lord for what I have and where I am, because I wouldn’t want to be anywhere else.

Home on the Range

I’m still in the race for 1000 comments this month (though I still only have under 400 comments and we have a week left in August!!) so I went around visiting blogs and leaving my footprints all over the place. It is through my blog hops that I’ve seen this blog where the author talked about what kind of home she and her husband would like to have.

She had pretty photos up in that post, and I wish I could link to it, but for the life of me, I could not remember what blog it was I was reading!

I do remember though, how much I would like to be in a place very close to nature, with lots of trees and wide open spaces for dogs and kids to run around in. I’d like to be somewhere near a (clean) flowing river where we could go swim in the afternoons. Oh okay, a swimming pool will do. I imagined something like the Pioneer Woman’s ranch, but I didn’t want to do the ranch chores that comes with the property. Hehe.

I remember too what song played in my head as these thoughts ran through my mind while reading that blog post: Home on The Range. It was a piece that was included in my beginner’s piano book. I loved playing it, and listening to it. My mom would sing the song too.

Now, looking at the website for desert ridge homes for sale, I remember the same things again. The music, the backdrop, and the whole feel of the place.

But to be realistic, I’d probably spend the rest of my life in a house in the city. Hehe 🙂

Fortunes Told

Have you every had your fortune told? Palm reading maybe, or tarot card?

I can remember only one incident of this for me ever, but don’t remember the details at all. I’ve purposely stayed away from fortune telling booths at the UP whenever there were ones setup along AS Walk or at the FC. I was afraid, I think.

Afraid of what the future holds? Nah. Just that I might hear something that I don’t like. What if they tell me I won’t be marrying the one I’m with? What if there’ll be tragedy?

There’s this girl at work who seems to have the gift. She’s read for at least three people yesterday, and she seems to have been spot on on a lot of things. She’s also very interested to read for me.

But I said I was scared. I need to be ready for it, she says. Maybe next week.  It would be nice to ask a few questions. 🙂

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